Move on

                    Life is short, and we don't have forever to wait for someone or to play the blame game. If you know you give your all in the relationship, and that person did nothing but walk all over you, forget them and move on. While you're sitting there crying, and losing your hair and sanity over this person, they are out living their life. Look at it this way, should you pay for something they did? HELL NO!!  Before they entered your life, what did you love to do? Did you write poems, read books, dance or just hang out with friends? Whatever it was, try going back to what used to make you happy, and use this break up as lesson and never let someone bring you to your keens again.    

The long letter of apologies..Get yours yet??

The infamous 12 page apology letter always comes when you are least expecting it. The first lines may go as follows. "I know I am the lat person you want to hear from at this point in your life but"... And then you can pretty much fill the rest in yourself with out reading the books they will send. Most of us will get a kick out of it if you are normal, but the biggest thing is will we fall for the okie doke? You then start asking yourself questions like, " should i call him/her, or Is he/she serious or the big one "what is he/she trying to pull? My advice is, JUST GO WITH THE FLOW. Don't answer the letters, just put them away until you want to skim over them again or like I often do, trash them, believe me you will get more as long as you don't respond. It's better that way, especially if you want to know if these apologies are sincere.So keep that waste basket near the door, they will be pouring sooner or later...