Stay Gone

  Today I was listening to some music and came across the song stay gone by Jimmy Wayne and I remembered when I was going through a tough breakup with someone I really loved.  We tried so hard to make it work but we were not compatible. We ended our relationship on good terms and remained friends, but I still loved him, and I know he still loved me, but we could not stay together because we always found a way to hurt each other.  I was feeling pretty low, and listened to this song and it felt like the weight was lifted off of my shoulders, and I could breathe again. Music really can help you through some hardships, believe me it can.       
 

Five Role Playing Games

    Today I had a friend of mine tell me that her sex life was for lack of a better word "boring", and she asked me what I think she could do to spice it up.  I told her to role play. Role playing is good for the couple who has been together for a long time and just don't find the some old routine fun anymore.  It's also a good way for your husband or wife to act as one of your favorite actors or actresses. Here are my top five role playing game ideas that will have your partner cumming back for more!

1.  Doctor and nurse...."Let me check you temperature". 
2. college professor and Student....."Stay after class we need to talk about your grades".
3. Football player and cheerleader.........." You won the game now come and get your prize".
4. Tarzan and Jane........ "Me Tarzan, You Jane, We Get Naked Now"!
5. Big bad wolf and red riding hood....... Red: " What a big leg you have", Wolf " that's not my leg"....           

Okay I've got one more just for the danger seekers out there .............   Robber and Victim...... "Don't move or I'll take more than just your purse".   

Valentines for singles

It's almost Valentine's day and I know its hard for some of the single people out there seeing people getting flowers, candy etc. but today I'm going to talk about what you can do for yourself this Valentine's.  We all know that Valentine's day is about love, and who loves you more than you? So why not romance yourself? You already know what kind of food, music, candy, flowers etc. you like..... so why not pamper yourself?  Here is what you do, go to the flower shop and buy your favorite flowers then go buy the ingredients to make your favorite meal and dessert, also pick up the best bottle of wine you ever had (if you're a guy pick up some beer) and while you're out pick up some bubble bath, chocolates, a romantic music cd and movie.  Go home and let your hair down, take off your shoes and start having a relaxing romantic time where you are the center of attention.  JUST ENJOY YOURSELF!      

Move on

                    Life is short, and we don't have forever to wait for someone or to play the blame game. If you know you give your all in the relationship, and that person did nothing but walk all over you, forget them and move on. While you're sitting there crying, and losing your hair and sanity over this person, they are out living their life. Look at it this way, should you pay for something they did? HELL NO!!  Before they entered your life, what did you love to do? Did you write poems, read books, dance or just hang out with friends? Whatever it was, try going back to what used to make you happy, and use this break up as lesson and never let someone bring you to your keens again.    

The long letter of apologies..Get yours yet??

The infamous 12 page apology letter always comes when you are least expecting it. The first lines may go as follows. "I know I am the lat person you want to hear from at this point in your life but"... And then you can pretty much fill the rest in yourself with out reading the books they will send. Most of us will get a kick out of it if you are normal, but the biggest thing is will we fall for the okie doke? You then start asking yourself questions like, " should i call him/her, or Is he/she serious or the big one "what is he/she trying to pull? My advice is, JUST GO WITH THE FLOW. Don't answer the letters, just put them away until you want to skim over them again or like I often do, trash them, believe me you will get more as long as you don't respond. It's better that way, especially if you want to know if these apologies are sincere.So keep that waste basket near the door, they will be pouring sooner or later...

The Depression Stage..Been there Yet??

Just when you think you've got the broken heart thing licked, low and behold here comes Mr. Depression. That slithering snake that appears as soon as you think it is all over with. I know, The "I am never dating again", conversation that you have with yourself. Believe me it is as bad as it sounds but, you get over that as well. Three steps to beatig the love hangover called depression.#1.Find something that you really loved to do before you met that person and really get into it again, lol as long as it is legal and not life threatening, like a hobby {poetry, sewing, painting}, After you have mastered your hobby it's on to step #2. Start going out with old friends, not the ones you both had but the ones you always kept in touch with or meet new ones and even travel and see new sights, And finally #3/ pamper yourself, change something about yourself to your satisfaction, like your hair style or color, maybe a different outfit from time to time and get into who you are. And EURIKA! You beat the depression. I know it works, it worked for me and Honey I thought there was no hope... Try it, I am sure you'll love how you feel.

Ex- wife/Husband's phone call !! should we pick it up??

When the New wife/hubby calls you "the EX wife/husband", after three years looking for her husband/ his wife.LMBAO..Why in the hell would you be that insecure.Ladies and gents listen up. If you have to call the ex to find him/her you shouldn't have married him/her in the first place...Stop being so insecure..WE don't want them back..If they cheated on the EX to be with you then you only get what you paid for...So if they asks you where he/she is my advice would be to tell them that he's/she's in the shower and will call you later.Even if they are not there.. Give them a dose of thier own medicine.